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A Message to Parents About Children and Music

The typical record retailer knows that there is no such thing as a "typical" consumer.  Most record stores stock thousands of titles in an effort to satisfy as many different kinds of musical tastes as they can - including recordings with explicit lyrics.  Just as musical tastes vary, so do parenting styles, cultural norms, community standards, and business practices when it comes to the subject of explicit lyrics and children. 

 NARM has always sought to be supportive of

1)     The artist's right to free expression,

2)     The parent's right to identify entertainment with explicit content, and

3)     The retailer's right to handle explicit content according to how each believes they can best meet the needs of their company and communities.

 The Parental Advisory Program

For over 15 years NARM has been working with the Recording Industry Association of America to voluntarily provide parents with the information they need to identify music with explicit lyrics.  The process starts with individual record labels that, in the course of releasing music, determine whether or not a specific title should appropriately carry a label that reads "Parental Advisory - Explicit Content".  The standardized logo alerts parents to the possibility of strong language or lyrics about drugs, sex, or violence in that recording and will be placed on every cassette and CD as well as in the advertising for the music.  Details about the Parental Advisory program (as well as about other entertainment industry ratings programs) can be found online at www.parentalguide.org a web site maintained by RIAA, the Motion Picture Association of America, and the Interactive Digital Software Association.

 Retailers and Explicit Content

 There are thousands of retailers in the United States and they handle titles that carry the Parental Advisory notification in a variety of ways.  Some retailers choose not to carry stickered product, or stock only an edited version of a title. Some retail locations stock the product, but restrict sales of records carrying the Parental Advisory to children (applicable ages may vary from anyone below the age of 12 up to age 18.)  Others will sell product upon proof of permission from a parent.  Some retailers choose not interfere with parenting decisions and sell entertainment products without regard to age.  Many retailers will accept returns of products from parents who have concluded a title is inappropriate for their children.  The variety of approaches to explicit lyrics by retailers means that parents can and should choose to shop with companies, which best meet, their family's needs.  Regardless of the approach, virtually all retailers are familiar with the Parental Advisory program, and are happy to help parents learn more about it.

 Parents and Explicit Content

 There is an increasing call on the part of the U.S. government to "assist" parents by restricting access to music that carries the Parental Advisory to anyone under the age of 18.  The Parental Advisory is deliberately not an age-based program, nor is it an indication that a particular record is "harmful" to children.  Different children mature at different ages.  Different families have different concerns: some are most concerned with offensive language, others with sexual content, or violence.  What children have in common is the need to test limits - whether imposed by parents or retailers.  Retailers with restrictive sales policies readily acknowledge that a determined child will find a way around their policy, often by finding an older sibling or friend to purchase music for them.  Sales policies are no substitute for parenting and no single sales policy can meet the needs of all parents.  

Over the years we have learned that parents approach explicit lyrics in a variety of ways.  Some families prohibit some music from being played on the family stereo system, or restrict play around younger siblings.  Some discuss lyrics with their children and use the purchase of a specific title as an opportunity to better understand a child’s attraction to a certain kind of music. Others relegate a forbidden title to the trash. 

 We believe the overwhelming majority of parents have a realistic perspective regarding the influence of pop culture on their children.  We believe they understand that ultimately it’s parents who are best positioned to determine what their children should listen to.

 We welcome your feedback and suggestions.

 


 

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